It’s a whole different thing and level when you live together. It’s not like the weekend stayovers and holiday travels. The tiniest action and habit can get on your nerves which can sound stupid and silly, so difficult to put it into words. The smallest words and actions can spark a massacre (ok I exaggerate), especially since both are so hot headed. Now I understand when someone told me: ‘learn to accept and get over all the weird, annoying quirks/bad habits. It’s not gonna be easy and it may take quite a while.’ I guess we are still getting used to it and learning. It takes WAY more than love alone and I guess that’s why some people become tired of it. It really takes a lot of effort and as long as both are willing, it’s worth it.
"Never go to bed angry with each other." This is our motto.
We are back in the room to rest after our very early morning 9am appointment at V.W. So Gab’s taking a nap and I’m just resting, indulging in my Ben & Jerry’s Americone Dream. How sinful but I’ve been pigging out sooooo much everyday it doesn’t make a difference. Love LOVE NYC. Anyway this trip has seen ups and downs, first time we fought so badly on a holiday but I guess it’s part and parcel of everything.
"A guy who really loves you will still stick around after seeing how moody and ugly you can get, and not give up on you."
Thankful that Gab always tries to make things better for us. :’)